~ incident @ masjid ~

on the same day as my nikah ceremony,

whc is 12 dec 09, there's a so-called

artiste who was also scheduled to nikah

on the same day too.. her name is aien..

who is the twin sister of ekin, mawi's wife..

one thing i would like to point out here is,

we had our mini kenduri after nikah at

kedai kopi 2 because we couldnt get to

use the dewan makan. masjid staff said

on weekends nobody can use the dewan

mkn because it is used for org kursus kawin..

we also couldnt set up any khemah on the

masjid premise..

however, upon arrival at masjid, i saw ppl

eating very2 near the dewan nikah, and

before i could process wat was going on,

my mum told me tat because aein tu is going

to nikah there, so they could use the dewan

and budak2 kursus kawin terpaksa mkn kat

tepi2.. huh? apahal lak ni.. giler double standard..

juz bcoz yg nk kawin tu adik ipar mawi terus

dpt guna dewan mkn??

but then i was like lantak la.. and went into the

dewan nikah.. as it is, our imam jurunikah byk

sgt appoinment nikah dia, so he really speed up

our nikah.. mmg laju giler la.. and then as i was

sitting on my nikah cushion, i saw a security guard

marching in and talked to one of my uncles. i

wondered wat was going on, and asked sha, my

pengapit wat time was it. sha said 1145am.. belum

kul 12 pun lagi da tak sabar2 nk halau kitaorg..

but kitaorg buat tak tau je dgn guard tu.. tak cukup

tu, pengarah jais pulak barged in to take over..

sabar je la..

u see, wat happened was their mistake.. we booked

the place from 1030am to 12noon.. and nikah should

be at 1130am. but they told my mum tat my nikah

should be from 1030 - 1130am. suka2 ati je nk

tentukan bila kitaorg nk kena nikah. pdhal we've

already booked our imam jurunikah at 1130am,

not 1030am. know y? we found out because aien

nk nikah at 1212 noon.. because of this, pihak

masjid n jais pushed our nikah forward without

informing us earlier. stakat bgtau on tat day, masa

kitaorg smpi jgn harap la kitaorg nk give in..

wat made us mad is tat pihak masjid n jais tak

respect majlis org, main terjah majlis org juz because

nk amik hati artis yg kawin dato duda. sbb mamat

tu dato? pls la.. kitaorg da byr booking lama da..

ajoy n i was the first to book d dewan nikah for the

month of december, let alone 12hb tu.. awal giler

kitaorg book.. so our family n i really couldnt care

less about sape yg nk nikah lepas kitaorg.. hak

kitaorg ttp hak kitaorg.

apa yg pihak masjid n pengarah jais tu buat sikit

pun tak mencerminkan ajaran Islam dalam

menghormati majlis n respect org lain. semata2 sbb

nk masuk paper, nk masuk tv, suka2 hati diaorg je

nak push other ppl around.. sabar je la..