i am very lucky to be born in my family..
i am also lucky tat my mother trained us
in many aspects tat helped us to be well-
mannered and respectful..
my concern today is about manners.. i blv
tat it doesnt matter where u were born, whr
u grew up, or who yr parents are, but
manners are manners. but still, i cant blame
those whose parents didnt teach them wat
manners are AT ALL..
i have met so many ppl, some of whc are my
friends who lacked in manners.. but being my
friends, i will juz tell them off right there n
there to salam my parents n such.. i dont know
if m juz too particular, but, takkan salam our
friend's parents pun tak diajar????????? in tis
case mmg d term 'kurang ajar' tu suitable la
sgt2 kan.. d worst part is when our friend tu
nk stay at our parent's hse or tumpang mkn at
our parent's hse plak tu.. adoihhhh malu siut
ada kwn mcm nie.. malu coz we have friends
who are disrespectful to our parents.. salam
pun tak reti camner???
some ppl da la dtg majlis org, and then acted like
they are d only guest there by talking so loud ~
on the phone.. yes.. very2 rude.. like pls la, tat
day is not about you, it is about yr friend's
engagement, or wedding, or watever event it was..
so nk ckp phone pun go somewhere jauh ckit la..
tak psl2 ganggu majlis org.. tak tau adab ke..
and to me, calling our friend's mum 'kakak' is a
huge NO-NO, no matter how funny we're trying
to be.. it isnt funny even if u wanna kiss their asses..
pls, use yr common sense.. we always, always,
ALWAYS have to call our friend's mum aunty or
makcik in some cases.. but never ever ever kakak!
i am not perfect.. no where near perfect.. but these
3 points tat i highlighted in terms of manners hv
to be looked upon seriously.. bcoz as my friends with
good manners hv discussed before, ppl nowadays
lack good manners.. tis doesnt differ with age.. older,
same age or younger all lack of manners these days..
it is more sad and embarassing when our own friends
displayed tis kinda behavior to our parents.. tsk tsk tsk..
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