::we are who we are::

 

**source: google images

we are who we are.. look at the pic above and wat do u see? couples goofing around tp cam kasar kan? well tats how it is sometimes with me and ajoy.. 

this entry comes about when some of my friends feel like m not appreciating ajoy enough judging by how kasar we gurau with each other.. yes we may kutuk2 each other jokingly, or call each other names jokingly but thats just the way we were and thats just the way we are now.. some ppl who listened to us might think we're acting like friends with each other, might think we act like we're still a couple yg lum kawin, or mcm2 thoughts lg la.. so wat if we are.. married couples to me, shud always be best of friends with each other smpi akhir hayat, should still act like we're still dating smpi la akhir hayat whilst respecting, supporting and loving each other smpi akhir hayat and knowing our responsibility as husband and wife..

for ajoy and i, to us we do not have to change who we are just because we are now married.. ajoy is not gonna turn all serious all the time just because he's married now.. he's a joker, he makes stupid jokes all the time, he loves to make fun of other ppl including me dr dulu lagi and if he suddenly change 360 degrees, chances are, i might not even know him anymore. agree? and vice versa.. 

sorry la.. we're just not one of those married couples yg bila kawin jer terus tukar character and personality.. no way.. we love each other for our personality and character, so no way we're gonna change tat.. so to u who thinks i dont appreciate ajoy enough, shut yr pipe and show yourselves to the door.. 

i have friends who have been married for nearly or more than 10 years and still loves each other but also giler2 mcm masa diaorg couple dulu.. well guess wat losers, tat recipe works ok.. so tolong jaga kain dlm sendiri bole tak???

gosh i hate dealing wit so many haters and jealous ppl everywhere!!!