~ baju pengapit ~

i've been a bridesmaid 3 times in my lifetime..

up til now la.. i never thought picking an

attire to be a bridesmaid is hard..

to me, all we need to know the theme colour

and wat colour the bride wants us to wear n

pick the right baju for it la kan..

but d question here is, wat is the right baju??

to me, it is a simple answer. a simple baju.

nice but simple. we can wear a baju with good

and expensive material, but wear it simple.

for example, not too much beading or sequins..

not too glittery so as to tenggelamkan our friend..

and the colour should be one tone lighter than

our friend's..

it has never really been an issue to me before

maybe because i know where my place is. i

know my friend wants me to still look nice but

not overshadow her. and not to ever2 look

frumpy n ugly as tat will affect her as well..

sadly, some ppl just doesnt have a clue to tis..

well, here's something i picked up when reading

about baju pengapit:

"Bagaimanapun, saya ingin mengingatkan supaya saudari

berpakaian sederhana dan tidak terlalu menonjol berbanding

pengantin dikhuatiri ia akan mengecilkan hati pengantin jika

pengapit yang lebih menjadi perhatian." Berita Harian